Sunday, December 18, 2011

It's hard to say Goodbye

3 months ago my world was rocked when my best friend told me she and her family would be moving. Now, she didn't know when or where- just that God had called them (like Abraham in the Old Testament) to leave their home and go to the place He would lead them.

Well, they are leaving now- in fact, in 8 days they will be getting in their car and saying goodbye to California (for now). They are headed to Savannah, Georgia. Her husband Rob was offered a wonderful job at Savannah Christian Church and will begin on January 3rd.
Today after a wonderful sermon and baptisms, we had a send off lunch for the wonderful Conatser/Gibson family. There were tons of tears, happy memories, testimonies of changed lives, laughter and great Mexican food.
I know that I wouldn't have had so many tears of sadness if there wasn't so much love for the people who are leaving. You can't have deep sorrow without profound joy and love- I think it is worth it all!!
Melissa, Emma and Julie
Jason and Emma
Nathan & Ethan
Beverly & Melissa-
July 17th Birthday Sisters
You will be missed dear Julie and family, but never forgotten!! Oh yeah- expect lots of calls, texts, emails, Skype conversations and visits in the near future!!

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Concert at the Hollywood Palladium


Last night Dan and I headed up to Hollywood to see Sara Bareilles and Josh Radin in concert. After sitting in Friday night traffic, we made it up to Hollywood- where we found out there had been a shooting earlier in the day! This concert was general admission (first come, first serve) and required us to stand in line for 2 hours before we were let into the concert hall. We also discovered that there were NO seats- standing only (think mosh pit). Although the concert was amazing and we were nice and close to the performers, we are definitely TOO old to stand for 6 hours straight! Thankfully the kids and dog had sleepovers and we were able to sleep in till 10am the next day.
Waiting in Line- 2 hours
Standing around with my new "friends"-1 hour
Joshua Radin Rocks
Sara Barielles is in the house!

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Christmas Letter 2011

Since Dan and I have been married and we have sent Christmas cards out, we have sent a letter to go along with the picture- a recap of the year! This year I invited you to follow the Crout Family on our blog. I thought I would welcome any new visitors and say "Thank You" to you who have faithfully visited and kept up with us!

Please look back at past posts to see what we have been up to (and see pictures), but I will do a quick recap of everyone in the family just for YOU!!

Dan is wrapping up his 7th year at UC Irvine. He is still running the Sign and Banner shop as well as supervising two painters. This has been an added stress as well as income for us (is it worth it?). He has also been very busy doing freelance graphics and pre-press for Mission Hospital (through Office Max). This keeps him quite busy when he isn't at work and I am sure he wishes he didn't have so much to do (but again, the extra money is helpful). In the little free time he has after work- he is spending it with the family, reading books, writing, and playing games on the computer. He is a wonderful provider, an awesome dad and the best husband ever (I am biased).

Ryan is attending ASU for his second year. He is still in the Mechanical Engineering program and liking it. It definitely isn't as easy as high school, but being away from home has been good for him. Unfortunately Ryan was in a car accident during the summer and totaled his car. Thankfully he walked away with only a few cuts and bruises and no other vehicles or people were involved. This meant that he had to get another car and insure the unwanted expense, but we are just so thankful that he is alive and well!! We are looking forward to seeing him over the Christmas break!

Nathan is doing great! He is now in 3rd grade and loves his teacher. Third grade was a big leap in academics and expectations compared to 2nd grade, but he is making it through. About a month ago he got glasses for seeing distances and looks so handsome!! He continues to enjoy building, inventing, creating and drawing and has found a love for reading. He may not be the fastest reader, but his nose is often in a book. He is growing taller and more handsome every day and looks so much like his older brother!
Jason is funny kid who wears his emotions all on his sleeve. He loves watching himself on the iPad as he records himself singing and talking. He reminds me of myself at that age (heck, even now). Jason is in first grade and I think is beginning to enjoy it. He isn't a great student, but he makes up for it with telling stories (he kills the oral presentations) and his math skills. He is getting better each day with his writing and reading, but would rather not sit all day! He is all about the outdoors. He loves hanging out with his friends and his dog.
Dog you ask? We adopted a Cocker Spaniel from our local shelter back in June and she has been the light of our life. We named her Chloe and it fits her well. She is an English Cocker, but probably is mixed with something else. She is a lot of work and has cost quite a bit in doctor's fees, but we love her all the same. Jason especially has always wanted a dog, but all of the boys (even Dan) are quite smitten with her (especially when she is clean). For all the attention that they give her, she is still my baby and follows me everywhere I go.

I, Melissa, am doing well too. I have had a busy and blessed year! I enjoyed a summer off from work with the boys and even enjoyed some time while they were at various summer camps. I spent a lot of time walking our dog, reading books, seeing friends and even relaxing at the pool! I have also enjoyed a year of seeing clearly! On December 20th last year I had the Lasik procedure done on my eyes and now see clearly without lenses. I had worn glasses or contacts since I was 5- what a change!! Also celebrated my 40th birthday over the summer. Forty isn't what I thought it would be when I was a kid- I still feel as young as ever (except for when I don't!). I started back at Brywood Elementary being the kindergarten aid, but found it not as fun as last year when Jason was in the class. I also have missed being with friends and keeping my home organized- thankfully we don't need me to work the extra job. So starting in the new year I will get to go back to being a stay at home mom and I can't wait!!

What's ahead? Dan and I celebrate our 9th wedding anniversary on January 11th and in April he and I will be going to Kauai for 2 weeks (without our children). This is to celebrate our 10th anniversary a bit early, but the timing working out best for our family. We can't wait to be alone in paradise and just have a time of rest, relaxation and some fun too!! We have been saving for this trip for over 2 years with our recycling collection- it is long awaited!!

We wish you a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! We pray that your family finds the joy and blessing in this season of celebrating Christ's birth!

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Gingerbread Tradition

Our annual tradition, which started 10 years ago, of decorating Gingerbread Houses was a hit this year. We added Trees to the mix and those were super cute too. We know Christmas is near when we gather and slather frosting all over cookie houses and stick yummy candies all over them!
Merry Christmas!


Thursday, November 24, 2011

Thanksgiving

Today we gathered at my mom's house for a beautiful Thanksgiving feast. Seriously, the food was a to die for!! Although the food was great, the best part about this gathering was being with family. All of my siblings (minus one) were present with their spouses and kids. After an early dinner we headed outside for a walk around Balboa Island. After our walk we came back and enjoyed awesome Pumpkin Pie (thank you Costco). We have so much to be thankful for!!
Aunt Desi with kids (wait, is that a kid or Aunt Chris?)
Love Birds- Dan and Melissa
Grandma Mary and her boys!
They already looked alike, but the glasses clinch it!
The Crazy Crouts
Grandkids!
The teens are growing up (literally)
Grammy and Grandpa with all of the grandkids (below age 20)

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Native American Day

Today was "Indian" day for 3rd grade. There were four stations that the students got to visit- hunting, gathering, games and trade/barter. I was able to volunteer and really enjoyed watching Nathan and his classmates experience a different culture, time and way of life. Happy Thanksgiving!





Sunday, November 20, 2011

Fall Is Here...

...or is that winter? It sure feels cold enough to be a Southern California winter right now and I love it. I love bundling up in warm clothes and feeling the cold air on my face and smelling all the wonderful smells that come with the season.